“A bond between souls is ancient – older than the planet.” (Dianna Hardy)
No space, no situations, and no people can separate two souls that cherish themselves. If we look for a soulmate’s definition we usually find a romantic connection in between, but I tend to disagree even though they most likely exist. I think that someone can love a person deeply, a love that is even more powerful than the romantic one. That kind of love that wants the other one to be happy no matter what — no matter if the source of happiness is themselves or another partner!
The goal is to laugh forever, but even more important than that is to be there in moments of sadness and unbalance! One of us has to be the light at the end of the tunnel for the other. One has to be the guide that speaks the truth, the kind of truth that the other didn’t hear in the first place! One of us has to bring back the equilibrium for his/her soulmate. And of course, this needs to be reciprocated for an unbreakable bond!
This happens in any kind of relationship or at least it should. Whether it’s love we are talking about, family bonds or friendships, we should offer and be able to receive from others the balance that we need to keep the relationship alive! Be there, be present, talk about what bothers you and also listen carefully to what the person in front of you has to say! Don’t listen just to respond, listen to understand and improve your connection!
„A soulmate is the one person whose love is powerful enough to motivate you to meet your soul, to do the emotional work of self-discovery, of awakening.” (Kenny Loggins)
„Having perfected our disguise, we spend our lives searching for someone we don’t fool.” (Robert Brault)
… I always feel at peace when I’m near the sea! Why this happens it still is a mystery for me, but I somehow managed to give myself a satisfying response. In this place, no masks are needed… No disguise, just pure emotions!
There’s so much beauty in every color, in every wave! There’s a connection between everything, a complicity between the sky and the sea, between the waves and the shore… Every seashell, every stone, every cloud wondering on the sky seems to have a story to tell! They’ve been the witnesses of so many promises and so many unspoken thoughts!
This made me wonder how is it that we are so afraid to let our guards down… how is it that we are so terrified to break the walls we’ve built and let another person take a look inside us, but still we always confide to the sea, the stars, the mountains… We don’t open wide enough our doors to let others feel our true skin, our emotions, and yet we still wish for that one special person to find in our demons his/her angels, to see behind our vulnerabilities all the strength we have… To stay in the sun with us, but most of all in the storm… to just be there, when everything else falls apart!
We long for the complicity and connection that nature has between all its elements, so even if we are so used to wearing our masks, at the end of the day we just want to be next to someone who can see clearly what’s been hidden underneath it for so long!
Her eyes were lowered and she was breathing heavily. Dianne looked beyond the journal’s pages and the silky sheets in which she sat all by herself, pouring her soul on paper. Most of all, she felt every word as if it was written on her own skin. Tonight something strange had happened. Usually, this whole process would have been a therapeutic way that would have made her feel better, lighter, soothed, but this time things were different. Tonight, there was something changed inside her too…
Very insightful post thank you for sharing. I’ll have to save it and read it all again. Loved it.
Such great insight to this question. I feel like this is one of those there is no wrong or right answers. The way you answered it was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing!
Nu știam acel citat al lui Elisabeth Gilbert. Mă bucur că l-am descoperit aici, îmi place mult și descrie perfect un suflet pereche.
Deep and insightful read, thanks for sharing. I feel I’ve found my soul mate, from a previous lifetime.
I love reading this! such an insightful post!
We have our own versions of them.. I am glad to know how you see it your way.. I felt like knowing you more now. (y)
Foarte interesant articolul și citatul lui Elisabeth Gilbert.
Sufletul pereche există, trebuie doar să-l simți, să-l vezi, să-l apropii.
Foarte frumos articolul. Eu ma bucur ca sufletul meu pereche este aproape de mine..
Sufletul pereche e tot ce avem nevoie pentru ca viata noastră să fie perfecta.
I love that end quote and totally agree with it. Thanks so much for sharing with us!
Foarte frumos scris, mai vrem astfel de articole!
Soul mate is more of the feeling than a number of characteristics. I think it is a person you will feel as a part of yourself in time, a person to long for and share everything (or almost everything) deeply.
Cred ca fiecare avem sufletul nostru pereche, trebuie doar sa il simtim.
I used to believe in soulmates some time ago, but I don’t anymore!:)
That’s such a beautiful post! We never really thought about that, it’s more a feeling we guess 🙂
Everyone of us has a soulmate. It is a matter of time until we meet her or him.
I believe that everyone has a soulmate, if not more than one. Not just in a romantic way, but also in terms of family members and friends that we have a deep seeded connection with, too.
I don’t believe in soul mates. I believe that people decide to marry, under one union under God and they make things work.
I think i already found mine! I need more posts like this in my life! Keep em coming sis!
Deep, profound and moving. Loved your post. Very few are lucky to find their soulmates in whatever from of relationship during their lifetime.
This was so insightful read. Thank you for sharing it with us. I’m so lucky I have met mine x
Laura
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Foarte frumos ai scris! Și eu mă simt calmă în preajma mării… mai ales în anotimpurile reci. Sufletul pereche poate fi oricine sau chiar mai multe pot trece prin viața noastră. ?
An interesting insight into the idea of a soulmate and what the person should be. I do think the right person will be someone who complements us but at the same time reveals to us the places we have areas we need to grow in.
Atunci cand ti-ai gasit sufletul pereche viata e mai frumoasa si treci prin toate greutatile vietii mult mai usor
The first quote in this article is so captivating and cannot be untrue! I love all the ideas mentioned in! This is so moving!
Such a beautiful and insight post. So many various of what a soulmate should be. you did a great job explaining it.
Si eu sunt convinsa ca sufletul pereche exista. Este un articol foarte profund care mi-a placut mult
Mă bucur din suflet că ți-a plăcut! Te îmbrățișez!
I cant say anything about it ,its realy amazing !
It was full of real emotions and inspiring spirit
Thank you to share this with us.
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